i know, im normally  talkn bout cheatin!! but no relationships will be harmed in this one....sorta!!! as a man, back in the day it was some chicks i missed out on. you know they werent into u, they had a dude already, or u fell in the friendship zone. something along those lines. several years go by and u happen to run back into them. U BOTH R SINGLE, hear me BRED "U BOTH R SINGLE" lol. but anyway. yall catch up with eachother, now im not sayn yall lookin for something real, but yall lookin at eachother thru grown folk eyes now. y'all bust it up for a couple of days, even weeks. nothing serious thou, but an opportunity opens for yall to have a sort of jump off session. now, im not speaking for all men. i only know me. im tryin to jump in it with everything i got!! im talkn bout hard hat, lunch pail, boots, and site plans. lol. i know women who say, "No, u cant give a man everything u got, because they might think ur a freak." but im sayn, u know this dude. he know u. do women look at men as being missed out on and think to theirselves like "IMA TEAR YO ASS UP!!!!!!" or is that just a male thing? men feel free to comment also.

ok, real easy!!!  what yall want and why do u think u deserve it!!

1. does thought really count? or will u tell them to think harder!!
2. should there be a price limit? or is the limit the sky?
3. is the chocolate on the fruit? or is it on U?
4. is ur gift gonna match the price and thought? or they get what U givin?
5. or is it all just a gimick??!!!!! or is everyday valentines for u and urs!!

ANYWAYS ENJOY YALL DAY. happy Valentines Day

yo i have 5 beautiful sisters. i love all of them like my daughters. anyway the oldest of them is a fool. she has a lame for a boyfriend. this ni66a beats her right and she wasnt lettin anybody know. so one time he beat her ass in front of my nephew and destroyed the house. so she calls my parents and they go get her and bring her to their house. nobody tells me anything. the next day i show up to my parents house and she is in the kitchen with bruises up and down her arms. i snap and immediately go to their home only to find she had called this ni66a and told him my family are on their way. a couple of weeks go by and she goes back home. everybody kept telling me that shes just gonna keep going back, so dont get urself in trouble. a couple of months go by and he gets locked up for abt 3mnths. he comes out long enough for her to get pregnant and its back off to prison. he is locked up for the whole pregnancy. she's comes to philly every weekend sayn how she's done with him. we're are talkin about the incident that i know of her gettn her ass beat. she than tells me while he was beating her he said "i wish this was ur brother". so needless to says i owe him something. it comes time for to have the baby and he gets out two days before the baby is born. so i fall back allow them to enjoy their child and i keep my distance. like three weeks go by and he inbox's me on facebook. WTF!!! we aint friends!! but anyways i read the message. " hey u can call the house so we can talk, if u want to". i delete and keep it moving. 20mins later he's commenting on my photo like we cool!!!! so now im fuming. i call the crib and he's trying to apologize for beating my sisters ass. stating everybody goes thru shit!! i start rammin and telln this bitch how i hate everything he stands for. about 30mins goes by and i have to check if he's still there. he was so quiet i thought he was cryin. my sister calls me an hour later mad at ME!! "he was tryn to make everything cool" "that was like 2 yrs ago" "GROW UP". than this bitch nigga gets back on facebook talkin shit. who even talk shit on facebook, NIGGA we grown. lol. I GOTTA GET EM!! I AM NOT SAYING I AM GOING TO KILL HIM!! but something has to happen. AM I WRONG?! i need input from men and women.

ok peeps, i got a question. ladies lets say u started dating a guy that u've known for awhile. he knows alot abt u already. he knows u have a child, he knows ur baby's father, and he knows that y'all arent together anymore and he trusts that y'all are just parents to ur child. you have a tattoo of ur baby's fathers name on ur arm, but ur new dude knows this and doesnt even care that its there. ok some time has past, yrs infact. you and the new guy have a child together. now that y'all been together for yrs the newnest has worn off. yall argue more often bout everything. when he sees he cant win the arguments he goes at u abt the tattoo. stating "that u must dont respect him because u still rockin the tat!" or that "u must still have feelings for him" "remove the tat or im out". u get mad and say "i had this tat when we started dealing, u didnt have a problem with it then!" " how u telln me when to remove my tat and u not even willing to pay to get it covered" "its not like if i was to get back with him, i couldnt get it put back on!!" u feel like he's tryna pressure u into doin somethin. not like u feel for ur ex, its just the nerve of him telln u what to do!!! so what im askn is "IS SHE WRONG FOR NOT GETTN IT REMOVED WHEN HE WANTS HER TO??" or "IS HE WRONG FOR GIVING HER ULTIMATUMS!!"

why must ppl go thru eachother cellphones??!! i used to think it was just a female thing, but nope, i stand corrected!!! it has gotten so bad that men now wait for women to go in the bathroom or the kitchen to play 007 and go thru their phone. dont u know its a lose, lose situation!! fellas, u cant win at a females game. she is not as dumb as u. she is not gonna leave text messages in her phone. she's not gonna put new male numbers under females names u never heard of. she erases her call logs. if she does slip up and leave something in there what u gonna do?? nothing but get ur feelings hurt. ur not gonna leave!!! oooooh, u break their phone and than end up buying her a new one.  now LADIES!! yall are masters at catchin "kneegrows" thru their cellphones. i must admit, we do alot of dumb things that make it easy. but y'all are kinda gettn outta hand. i mean yall go as far as paying companies for ur man's phone records. thats cheatin'!! then u dont find anything, so u start questioning " who called u from a blocked number tuesday at 4:37 pm." lol. ok, lets  say u do find something??!! he lies abt it and so u now want to call the number!! if he has a down chic, she's gonna have his back and have a story or deny!! all that and nobody is going nowhere. truly are u going to leave over some phone calls??!! lets be forreal!! the next time somebody goes thru ur phone and dont find anything, make them pay half ur bill. tell them its the rite thing to do. Am i wrong for stating this?? or should that be a new rule??!!

why do some women make this choice? ok here's the situation. u meet a man. he tells u alot abt himself, a whole lot abt himself. u deal with for abt two mths and its going pretty damn good. only problem is that u never been to his house. his answer to that is that his baby mama is always poppin up and he doesnt want the drama. u then hear thru the grapevine that he's married! u confront him on it and denies it.  u have no proof, u can only believe what u see. a couple more mths go by and as errthing does it comes to light!! he's married. he tells u he's leaving her just give him a little time. time goes on and he's doing everything a good man should. taking u out every weekend, paying bills , helpin u with ur child, and killn u in the bedroom. so good that u dont even notice that 3yrs have now gone by!!! and still no divorce. u get fed up and leave. but on the way, u tell his wife abt it all, leading to her leaving him too. but thats not ur problem!! u move on and get another man who's all urs. he has no legal job, he lies to u abt errthing, steals from u, cheats on u, and ur now pregnant with his child. but he's all urs!!!

my question is "if u were happy with that married man and y'all had no problems" why go to a man who gives u nothin but!!?? by no means am i sayn u should share, but y settle for unhappiness? i know its gonna be alot of women sayn "i would never put up with either" but we all know women who do!  

SCREAM AT ME!!!!!!

ok, im back. happy new year!! yada yada! u and ur significant other are out at a new years eve party.  y'all are having a great time drinking, laffn, minglin', PARTYIN'! the two of u break off into seperate convos with different groups. about 20mins. goes by and u look up and u dont see ur better half. u think nothing of it and continue on in ur conversation. now another 15mins go by and still no boo! u start to get worried and now ur on the hunt!! u get two steps into ur mission and bam they appear out of nowhere. u, with an attitude, say "and where the fuck was u at?!" (ebonics). they give u the (who the fuck u talkin to) look and reply  "i went right over there. whats ur problem?" now the both of u have a tude and u say get ur coat we're leavin'. on ur way out a person of the opposite sex, that u dont know, says to ur partner "i didnt know u were here with someone." u then look at them. thou they dont look surpised or caught, they brush the person of and keep it moving! all the way home ur asking them "who was that?" and all the way home they're ignoring yo ass!! R U WRONG for not trusting them? or R THEY WRONG for not answering U? 

 Ladies! Why if u have a great male friend! he does stuff like listen to all your problems, set backs, stupid mistakes, help u out when u need a couple dollaz, slap the sh!t out of lamez when they direspect u, and so on and so on!! And u do things like tell him he's wrong when he cheats on women, tell him its gonna be ok when he cant see the good in a situation, hook him up with ur girlfriends, curse them out when they start trippn on the fact that he wont settle down with them, and are always there like a friend should.  why would u want to have sex with him when u know it would cause y'all to have a strain on ur friendship?? Why get mad?! u know everything about him! all his lies! how he manuvers! U also know he is not capable of turning down a warm, attractive woman, that he knows is a beast in bed!!! EXPLAIN PLEASE!!!! I dont to hear "i can handle it" "im a big girl, i wont trip." BULLSH!T!!

Ok ladies here we go again! U meet a man out and about. Y'all get to talkin and he tells u he a Dr. and he works at a private practice abt 60 miles out of town. He's a really nice guy but he's hard to obtain because of his busy lifestyle and work. U learn to deal with it and mths goes by and now y'all are kickn' it strong. He's turns out to be the man of ur dreams. Handsome, caring, money, great provider, gets along with all ur friends and family, and a beast in the bedroom.  Now y'all have been together for abt 18 mths and life is wonderful. One of ur girlfriends are gettin married, and its time for the bachelorette party / girls night out. U tell ur man that ur going to a male stripclub and he gives u no problem all he says is " dont give them ni66as all my money". U laff and be on ur way. U and ur girlz are out having the time of ur life. Y'all drinkin, tippn, gettin lapdances, the whole 9. Than the loud speaker comes on and says "Ladies are u ready for the main event?" Y'all scream at the top of ur lungs "BRING IT!!!!"  He then says "PAGING DR. LONGSTROKE, PAGING DR. LONGSTROKE" the curtain swings back................and its ur man the Dr............WHAT WOULD U DO!!!!!!!

Sooooo, I was shootn the sh!t with santa the other day. lol. and we got to talkn bout the list. (u know the whose naughty whose nice). Well the nice list was only like one piece of loose leaf paper with like 100 names on it. i was like DAMN! Then he goes to his trunk and opens it! All these papers come falln out and i saw alot of y'all names on it. Now i know what i did to get on that list, but i want to know why y'all on it. ALOT OF Y'ALL AINT GETTN SH!T!!!  and p.s. NO felonys please, i dont need CSI taking my damn computer.   HAPPY HOLIDAYZ