Top 5 Things Men Do that Destroy
Relationships:
1. Not Answering the Phone:
When a man doesn’t answer the phone, especially at certain times of
the day, it causes suspicion in a woman’s mind.
2.
Walk Your Talk:
If a man says he is going to do something,
then he needs to make sure that he does it. Don’t give empty
promises.
3. Learn to say “I Don’t Know”:
When it comes to a man’s ego, they can’t stand
to say “I DON’T KNOW!!!” Women can’t stand when a
man thinks he knows EVERYTHING!!! It’s okay to “google
it” if you don’t know.
4. Hogging the Remote:
When a man just takes complete control over the TV,
it’s a simple sign that a man is not interested in the things that
his woman likes. Watching sports is cool but not 24\7.
5.
Bringing Up Weight:
A woman doesn’t need her man to
constantly remind her that she needs to hit the gym. A woman realizes that
she has gained a few pounds when the 1st pound hits. Also by a man always
bringing up a woman’s weight, it makes it seem that all he cares
about is the way she looks and not what she has to offer.
Top 5 Things Women Do to Destroy Relationships:
1. The
“WHERE ARE YOU” question:
When a woman calls a
man and the first thing she ask him is “WHERE ARE YOU???” That
is annoying. If the woman is asking for a specific reason then that’s
understandable but to ask a man who all the time shows that a woman
doesn’t trust her man when he’s not with her.
2. The “Who You Talking
To” question:
When a man is on the phone and this
question is asked, men find this to be very rude. Asking this question
co-insides with the above question, it shows that a woman doesn’t
trust her man and makes a woman appear to be nosy.
3.
Nagging:
When a woman starts nagging about nothing. If a
man hasn’t done what you want him to do and you nag him about it,
it’s really not going to get done once a woman starts nagging.
4. Holding a Grudge:
When a woman holds a grudge
and then tries to bring up all the old stuff in a new argument, that drives
a man crazy and makes him non-responsive.
5. Allowing a Man
Time to Breathe:
Men need time by themselves, to be with
friends and family. Men need to feel independent. When a woman
doesn’t give a man time to himself then he feels suffocated.
DISCUSS…
A MAN'S HEART CAN
BE BROKEN BUT NOT SHATTERED. IT CAN BE GIVEN BUT NOT KEPT. IT CAN THROB AND
ACHE BUT IT WILL ALWAYS HEAL. IT HAS NO PERMANENT LOCATION BUT YOU CAN
ALWAYS FIND ITS TRUE DESTINATION. A MAN'S SOUL IS HIDDEN BUT CAN BE
FELT BY MANY. ITS SOMETHING THAT BELONGS TO HIM AND ONLY HIM. HE ALLOWS IT
TO BE FELT BUT NEVER HELD. IT MAY BE OLD BUT MORE WISE BY THE SECOND. IT
HAS SCARS THAT ONLY HE KNOWS. A MAN'S SPIRIT IS EMOTIONAL BUT STOUT.
IT MAY BE OVERSHADOWED BY FOOLISH THINGS SUCH AS STUBBORNNESS, PRIDE,
GREED, AND ENVY, BUT IT ALWAYS SHOWS IT NATURAL FROM. IT'S TRUE
EXSISTENCE IS ONLY SEEN BY FEW BUT IS POWERFUL TO SAY THE LEAST. A
MAN'S HEART, SOUL, AND SPIRIT ARE ONLY A FEW THINGS THAT MAKE UP A MAN
BUT ARE SOME OF THE MAIN PIECES THAT HIS FOUNDATION IS BUILT UPON.
Whats up my TRD fam? Gotta few things I
wanted to ask here I go: I'm currently single and when women ask me
why I simply reply "i'm single by choice not force." I
never try to come off cocky nor to confident but I've haven't
always been the relationship type or the one who had a girlfriend so to
speak. My last official girlfriend was in 2007 and we were together
for a while and i truely loved her and still do have love for her but
things happened and distance killed that but since then i've met
hundreds of women. Some that i've been attracted to on a physical
and mental level and some on just one of the two. Often with women I
meet we may go out a few times and kick it and eventually have sex or we
may get it poppin instantly but normally when it comes to the time to
commit I either dodge the question for as long as possible or just say
I'm not ready for a relationship(meaning not with you). I've
met women that I've wanted to wife or make them my one and only but it
usually doesn't happen. I will usually blame it on bad karma for my
past encounters with women or say it wasn't meant to be. Currently
I've had a good bit of women approach me or make the notion that they
would like to or consider furthing or
friendship/relationship/partnership/etc. I've told them all with my
current situation(living/working/etc...not broke or homeless just dont like
where i am) I'm not in the position to handle a fulltime
relationship and they've all obliged but still I know they won't
wait and I don't want them too it wouldn't be fair. So I ask is
it a problem or do I need a little push? Will time be the factor? Fellas do
you all think I should just pick the person I like the most? Ladies whats
your opinion?
HEY TRD I'M BACK WITH ANOTHER ONE...
OK SEX ON THE FIRST DATE? GOOD, BAD, DON'T IT , DO IT, DOESN'T
MATTER, ETC! LADIES GIVE ME YOUR 2 CENTS AND FELLAS DROP SOME
KNOWLEDGE
What's good TRD?! Here I am with another one and hope you all
like....ok the blog is titled "My first time" and thats what I want to
know.... How was you first time? Who was it with? How old were you? Did you
enjoy it? The inspiration for the blog came from watching TV and talking to
a female friend? She asked me about my first time... I told her I
honest don't remember my 1st time. She laughed and asked me how
could i forget. I told her it wasn't a big deal to me and it
wasn't special.....So on that note people tell me about your first
time!!!!!!!!
Frank Hatley was just released from
prison after he was jailed for not paying child support for a child that is
not his:
Frank Hatley spent the past year in jail for being a
deadbeat dad. But there’s one problem — Hatley doesn’t
have any children. And, the “deadbeat” label doesn’t fit
the 50-year-old either, his supporters say. After a hearing, Hatley was
released from the Cook County Jail in south Georgia Wednesday afternoon, with the help of the
Southern Center for Human Rights.
Superior Court Judge Dane Perkins
ruled that Hatley was indigent and should not be jailed for not being able
to make child support payments. Perkins postponed a decision on whether
Hatley should have to make any more back payments on child-support for a
child who is not his. In June of last year, a judge ordered Hatley to jail
for failing to reimburse the state for public assistance that was paid to
support his “son,” who, as the court was aware, is not actually
his son.
The story dates back to 1986, when Hatley had a
relationship with Essie Lee Morrison. She became pregnant and gave birth to
a son. Morrison told Hatley that the child was his,
but……the couple ended their relationship shortly after the
boy’s birth, according to court documents. The couple never married and never lived
together, the documents state.
When the boy turned 2, Morrison
applied for public support for her son. Under Georgia
law
, the state can go after the non-custodial parent to recoup the
assistance. For 13 years, Hatley made payments to the state until learning, in 2000, that the boy might not be his
biological son. A DNA
test that year confirmed that there was no chance he
was the father, according to court documents. Hatley returned to court and
was relieved of any future child support reimbursement but was ordered to pay more than $16,000
that he had owed the state before the ruling.
Latesha
Bradley, an attorney who represented Hatley in that hearing, told
CNN the argument for keeping Hatley liable for the back payments was that
he had signed a consent agreement with the office of child support
services. The court agreed that Hatley had to comply
with the consent agreement for the period that he believed the boy was his
son.
Court documents show that Hatley for the most part continued
to make payments. He was jailed for six months in 2006 for falling behind
on payments during a period of unemployment, but afterward he resumed
making payments and continued to do so even after he lost another job in
2008 and became homeless, court
records state. Last year, he again became unable to
maintain the payments and was once again jailed.
The circumstances
of Hatley’s arrest didn’t feel right to many, including Cook
County Sheriff Johnny Daughtrey. “I knew the gentleman’s plight
and didn’t know how to help him,” Daughtrey told CNN. About two
months ago, when attorneys from the Southern Center for Human Rights
visited his jail, Daughtrey alerted them to Hatley’s case.
If a woman tricks a man under false
circumstances, how in the f*ck is he supposed to pay for that and not the
woman performing the trickery and fraud?
Whats poppin RunDown this is my 1st blog and I hope i get a lot comments
but lets get.... I was having a conversation with a Black woman a couple of
days ago and we were basically catching up on old times... we got into the
relationship talk yatta yatta yatta and then she started asking me about my
history.... I dont usually expose that information because its none of
anyones business but i gave her some info.... she asked if i had been with
a "WHITE GIRL" and I was like yea....not thinking it was a big deal and she
was like and i quote " ILL " I was like whats your problem. She
said thats nasty. I wasnt interested in her all that much in the 1st
place but that really just turned me off... not that she is a racist or
anything but the fact that she wasnt openminded enough to realize it
doesn't matter whatts somebody's color/race is... I
asked her is she would ever consider dating/talking/sleeping/etc with
somebody other than a black person and she said no. She only likes
black men and i told her thats fine and your choice.... I got to thinking
about it and at 1st I blamed it on her growing up in the south and thats
all she's known but then again thats no excuse.... Personally I love
women... I love them so much I went and help make one and it doesnt matter
what race, religion, etc.... so i ask men and women " Whats wrong with
stepping outside of your race for a man or a woman"
S.COOPER
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