Have you ever played peek-a-boo with a baby? Its the game where you put your hands over your face, hide for a few seconds, quickly pop up from behide your hands and say " peek-a boo, I see you". And the baby gets all happy, laughs and claps its hands. (I work at a children's hospital, so I do this ALL DAY!).  Its the same concept. Say you're talking to someone for a few weeks, everything is good but all of a sudden, you just stop getting phone calls. You say okay, screw it and move on. But then they POP up and they're all like " I wanna see you", and they expect you to get all happy, laugh, clap your hands and its supposed to be all good. And then get mad when you tell them hell no. WTF! They can't be serious! Somebody please explain this to me because I don't get it.