I have a
question for BW...
Why is it that only a small percentage of black women
date outside of their race?
Black men have been doing
it for years. If the BM is not willing to commit to a BW, marry a BW or be
a father to his children, then why wouldn’t you consider dating outside of
your race? We are a dying race, so I am not trying to encourage it;
however, if multitudes of BW can not find happiness in black men than I can
not discourage it either.
I just can't understand the stigma attached to the
matter....
I give a lot of credit to the BW. We are
the strongest women on the planet. To be able to deal with the black mans
unwillingness to commit, infidelity and willingness to date outside of his
race effortlessly. She also raises our children, the majority of the time
alone......
And she still stands by
her black man unwavering.
Statistics show that close to 48% of
black women will never marry. There are many reasons that this happens. One
would be
that black men are willing to shack up but never get
married.
We have all
heard the phrase "Why buy the
cow when you can get the milk for free?"
Another reason may be that once you are divorced he
will lose half. Yet another reason is that women are becoming more educated
and successful and may over achieve their male counterpart. Not to mention
the men that date outside of their race, are on drugs, incarcerated, or on
the down-low.
If there
is a shortage of "Good" BM , then why limit yourself to black men?
Why continue to
be over-looked, disrespected, and
mistreated?
If a White, Asian, Latino or any other man for that matter
is willing to put you on a pedestal, respect you and treat you good…
why not give him the opportunity?
Is it the chocolate skin?
Is it the
myths about penis size?
Is it a lack of chemistry?
Is it fear of being ridiculed by family and friends?
Males of other races may
be more likely to have his stuff together and a plan for getting married
and having children. It seems as if Asian women and Black men are both
dating their white counterparts.
If BM are unwilling to step up to the plate than
maybe you should consider another
option.....
As long as you find somebody that treats you right and makes
you happy... does it matter what they
are?
SMMFH.....This is by far the most ignorant shit I have seen
PERIOD.
In her comments...she begins to explain that
she doesn't like thugs....and this is a
"spoof"....SMH....
Does she not understand that some people
will take this seriously and really believe this is what ALL BLACK WOMEN
WANT!!!!
I
don't understand this bullshit. You post a video of a song that you
wrote and performed and when people call you out on it, you don't
understand. Look, you're sitting here with a tattoo across your chest
and spewing the words of a low-life woman.
If it looks like a duck
(tattoo across the chest)
And qwacks like a duck ( your lyrics)
Then it's a fucking duck.
This song epitomizes why the black
community is fucked up.Black women are mating with bum ass niggas rather
than hard working, law abiding, intelligent black men, so the cycle of
destruction and stupidity in the black community
continues.SMFH..........
Our women don't have the luxury of
engaging in such behavior & then claiming: "It's just for fun"
If she were white & did this video in claimed to be depicting
herself as black & pokin' fun at black women, you'd be up in arms
& U know it!
These kinda messages & images are being
transmitted ALL OVER THE WORLD! It's called Cultural betrayal &
it's irresponsible for U to make such LAME excuses for her..
And y'all wonder WHY our women are regarded as being "below"
all other women? Wake up!
In my
opinion...even IF she is "joking" and isn't a stereotype, she's
perpetrating one which is just as damaging. Personally, to even post this,
I don't think she's as far from the stereotype as she thinks she
is. I mean really, what was the point? This girl is so counterproductive
I can't even put it into words!
I
mean REALLY!?
And we as BW wonders why BM are
"exploring the rainbow" so to speak.....
I can't
do anything but SMMFH!!!!
femininity:
- The quality or
condition of being feminine.
- A characteristic or trait
traditionally held to be female.
- Women considered as a
group.
- Effeminacy.
Women are
passive by nature. Passivity is the natural female principle. The marriage
of active (male) and passive (female) is the basis of heterosexuality
Women are actually ashamed to want to be homemakers. How did this
happen? How did motherhood go from being honored to being stigmatized?
Can someone please...PLEASE....tell me where in the HELL did the
tradtional women go?
I
mean....women like you grandmother and great
grandmother?
The kind of woman that celebrates her
womanhood, and COOKS...and CLEANS....AND
NURTURES!
WTF DID SHE
GO?
When did it become the "thing" to do these
days to down-talk your God-given life partner (ie:
men)
I AM SO FED UP WITH HEARING FEMALES
SAY:
"NIGGAS AIN'T
SHIT!"
"FUCK
THAT NIGGA!'
"I DON'T NEED A
MAN!"
but
most of all...
"NIGGAS.....AIN'T........SHIT!"
To
the ladies thats say those type of
remarks......QUESTION?
DID YOU EVER THINK YOUR INSTINCTS AIN'T
SHIT?!
If you have
a sorry ass nigga (I don't condone tearing down a good Black Man...but
just like there are some sorry bitches out here...there are sorry
niggas...) chances are...YOU KNEW HE WASN'T ABOUT SHIT FROM DAY
1!
And what do you do
Woman?
You chill with him...YOU FUCK
HIM...and in a worst cases......You have kids by him.....Him being the same
sorry S.O.B. when you meet him....GUESS
WHAT!...
YOU HAVE JUST WON THE PRIZE OF BEING A SINGLE
MOTHER.....
So now.....you have
kids...you adore them.....but now your bitter towards almost all Black Men
as a whole.....
BECAUSE OF A NO-GOOD
NIGGA YOU KNEW WAS NOT ANY GOOD WHEN YOU MET HIS
ASS.....
BLACK MEN! THIS SHIT GOES FOR YOU TOO!
FUCKING AROUND WITH A SORRY BITCH JUST BECAUSE SHE IS A "10" OR HAS A BIG
ASS.....NO FUCKING NO!
YOU WILL
LEAVE A WOMAN THAT HAS BEEN WITH YOU......RAISED YOUR SEED.....HELPED YOU
IN YOU DARKEST HOUR....BEEN EVERYTHING A GOOD WOMAN IS SUPPOSED TO BE...FOR
WHAT?
A SMILE AND AN
ASS?
FEMALES....NEWS
FLASH:
Y'ALL WANT
NIGGAS TO STOP ACTING LIKE INCONSIDERATE ASSHOLES...DEAD
BEATS....THUGS....AND FUCKING
BUMS?
#1-STOP GIVING UP
THE PUSSY!
YES...I SAID
IT......
THINK ABOUT THE
SHIT YOU DO WHEN YOU TRAIN A
PUPPY.....
YOU TELL HIM TO DO
SOMETHING...
HE DOES IT
RIGHT...
YOU GIVE HIS LITTLE
FURRY ASS A TREAT....
HE
DOES IT WRONG...NO
TREAT...
USE THAT SAME
PRINCIPLE....
THAT
NIGGA GO TO JAIL...NO
TREAT!
HE GETS A JOB OR
DOES SOMETHING POSITIVE IN HIS
LIFE....TREAT!
SIMPLE SHIT....
BECAUSE EVERYTIME YOU HAVE SEX WITH THIS NIGGA RIGHT AFTER HE'S
DONE PLAYING XBOX...LYING AROUND IN YOUR HOUSE...NOT DOING SHIT ALL
DAY....
YOU ARE
REINFORCING ALL THE BULLSHIT HE
DOES!
#2-PUT YOURSELF IN LEAGUE WITH SOME GOOD
BLACK MEN...NOT NIGGAS....
What I
mean by that is....if you really wanna change niggas....have sex with
college grads....business owners....IE SUCESSFUL MEN...I know some people
will be like "huh?" but really think about
it...
Niggas are thugs and act like they are
hard all the time...why?
CAUSE FOR
THE MOST PART THATS WHAT TODAY'S WOMAN IS ATTRACTED
TO!
"I wanna
THUG!"
"He betta be
street..."
"I'm looking for a down
brotha..."
And niggas....even good ones....will go
out of their way to be this to get with a chick....so...I
say....
"Oh...a man with a 4.0 grade
average....*whew*"
"Oh....spreadsheets are soooo
sexy!"
"OMG! Your protractor is
so...BIG!"
Fuck the
bullshit......
Maybe if
us as women start rewarding success instead of failure.......MAYBE NIGGAS
WILL SEE WE ARE DOING SO AND TRY TO EMULATE THE SMART BROTHA...THE
SUCCESSFUL BROTHA...THE COLLEGE EDUCATED BROTHA....THE BLUE/WHITE COLLAR
BROTHA......THE GOOD BLACK MAN IN
GENERAL!
You know...
If your real, the best way to tell is the company you keep around
you...
I guess I
must fit the "real" catagory...'cause my buddy is ON SOME REAL
SHIT!
People that are my friends on here have "met" my buddy
Felesha...
(BTW:
Check her out...she's new to
here...FeFeRed)
I was on my Facebook page and saw a status she had
posted..
And
now I want to share it with all of
y'all....
This goes out to ALL the people on TRD
that have a
HATER...
A "NEY
SAYER"....
A "They can't be me so they
imitate"-r
THIS IS FOR YOU
The
Decision-maker...
The
Control-taker....
The "Got my life in order...do YOU need some
sticky notes?"-r
THIS IS FOR YOU!
HOW "BOUT THEM
HATERS!!?!
HATERS.....
I LOVE THE HATERS.
THEY STARE AND TALK, WHEN
THEY SEE ME.
I FEEL LIKE I'M A CELEBRITY.
THEY MUST LOVE THE WAY I LOOK
'CAUSE THEY STUDY
ME LIKE A SCHOOL BOOK.
SAYING...
"SHE THINK SEE THE SHIT"
I GUESS YOU THINK SO BY THE
WORDS YOU SAY.
I LOVE TO SEE A HATER, 'CAUSE THEY
BRIGHTEN UP MY DAY.
WHEN I SEE A HATER HATIN' I TELL
THEM TO WALK MY WAY.
HATERS ARE MY MOTIVATION.
A WAY TO ESCAPE FUSTRATION.
KNOWIN' THAT SOMEONE
WANTS TO BE ME.
ANGER FUSED BY JEALOUSY.
KNOWIN THAT THEY CAN'T BE ME.
THEY CHOOSE A WAY TO
MAKE ME HATE MYSELF.
AND BECOME ONE OF THEM.
HATERS BEAWARE, I DON'T CARE...
WHAT YOU HAVE TO SAY,
OR DO.
AT THE END OF THE DAY, WHEN IT'S ALL SAID AND
DONE.
I'M
STILL NOT LIKE YOU!
Ummm....
For
y'all that keep pumping
"SheWhoLies"
head up.....
Stop feeding into that bs she keeps
spitting....
I have feel victim to that bs
before...
So let me tell you what
I
think..
She's hurt...
She's lonely...
She's confused...
If anything...feel pity for
her...
Pray for
her....
Something...
She...after the whole "let me tell you about how great I am"
blog...probably writes to seek validation in some
form
that she
is not receiving from somewhere...
So....
Just let her tourture herself into a
miserable
exsistence....
Happy
Holidays!
Ahhh...here we go
AGAIN.
I'm
going to make this simple....
Black people who deal with white people are
not
wrong in any
way
As a biracial
woman...
That's offensive
to me
Bcause I know white folk in general can and
are decent people
So...I guess I'm
going to be a dumb mofo for taking my babies to see
"Santa"
I could care less if the "Santa" @ the mall was
purple
With yellow polka dots...we are going to see
him...
I really think ole' girl is missing the point of
the holiday spirit
worrying
About trivial stuff like skin color on
"Santa"
And matter of fact...who is she to try and
topple
A tradition that
has went on for
Ahhh... let's say....a few hundred
years?
What's next?
Is she gang-banging on stockings?
Mistletoe?
Fa La La La La...La La La La?
Let me tell you what I'm going to do after reading
that...
I WILL be going to
let my babies see "Santa"
WE will be drinking hot cocoa with the
mini marshmallows..
I
WILL be singing and being joyous..
I WILL BE IN FULL TILT FAT
WHITE MAN (a.k.a
"Santa")MODE!
So...please....writer of
"that blog".....
Do me a
favor....
Go find The Grinch
right....
Prepare a bed with candy
canes, holly, and holiday
light...
AND PLEASE RIDE HIM LIKE A PONY ON THE WAY
TO THE NORTH POLE
WITH THE LAST LETTER TO "THAT FAT WHITE MAN"
AS YOU PUT
IT...
Maybe...just
maybe....
If your
lucky....
HE'LL "INJECT" SOME
HOLIDAY SPIRIT INTO THAT
MEAN LITTLE BODY OF
YOURS.
Merry Christmas!
Ok....Out of sheer
curiosity......
Why when a female
After being approached by a man
Decides that she doesn't wanna continue
discussion
Or give a man her
phone number
Why does his
initial reaction go something kind of like this:
" Well fuck you then
BITCH!"
"You not "bad"
anyways"
"I was just playing with your
ass anyways.."
"You not even my type
anyways.."
"You telling ME no???
ME!?"
"Concieted-ass
ho..."
Ladies...we know the list
goes ON and
ON...
So
fellas...
Give us some insight into this
shit...
Why in the hell do we have to
put up with this shit
cause
YA'LL GOT
REJECTED?!
Why can't it just be
that we have PREFERENCES???
STANDARDS???
TWO GOOD
EYES???
Are women really at fault
for
this.....
Or is it more so mens'
fragile egos?
Damn....
They
really think I'm that naive...
Talking everytime I leave
The room...
So I
guess it's safe to assume
That there's something going on...
Left me
wondering...
Thought she was a friend
So I left her 'round MY man
Just to see if she was to be trusted
Wait....
Did this...did she just grab his arm
Caress
him
And
say "I love how this shirt fits.."
This BITCH got it twisted...
Or
maybe I do...
Trippin' off the game's other men have put me
through
'Cause hurt has presented itself in many
forms
Many
faces do lies adorn
But my
guts telling me
"No!"
"You
saw them!"
Him creepin' off into the
night..
Whispering on his phone
In spite
Of me
Speaks volumes
Despite his
silence....
And when he's with me
And
her
Can't shake the feelin'
That this nigga's
illin'
Willin' to do whatever to have his
cake
And eat her too...
Wait..
Eat it too...
Damn...
And even though
she might be the
Enemy
Was always a "good" friend, you
see
On the phone
Tellin' me
"He's good
girl!"
"You got a winner, see?!"
Wait...
Is
that...
Nah..can't be..
Jodeci?!
The same
song he plays...
When he
makes love to me?!
Never
told him
Or her
for that matter
That I
called his boys...
Said
they have not seen hide nor hair of this man
IN THREE
DAYS!?!?
I'm
getting fed up with these games they play
' Cause the fact of the matter
is
I road down her street
As I spoke to
her..
Unknown to her...
Saw
his car
Down
the road..
Huh...
Guess
that fucks up the story I was told..
*Sighs*
So...
I've found myself in this
Situation
And
I'm a logicial woman....
So here's the equation:
One Man + One Woman= Too many open
opprotunities...
One
Couple+One
Desperate Woman=Me with insecurities...
One Bitch+One Moment Alone=Too many
inconsistincies
One
Man+One Guilty Mind=Too many lies...
One Trifling Chick+Another Woman's Shit-The Woman=Way too many
reasons to cry....
But
that's all good...
"Cause
I've always known...
Wheather
it be looks
Or
convo's on the phone
Something was going on...
So...
I did
what any self-respecting woman would do....
Pop the
trunk....
Walk to
the door...
What are
my thoughts?
Shall
you emplore???
Let it
go...
Get in
my car...
Driving
down the road...
Tears
finalized
Like
both of our relationships...
And I don't wanna hear no lip
About his things I left at your
door...
'Cause you wanted to play the game..
But your getting a little
more
Than
you bargained for...
But...
For
now...
Ya'll are sleeping....
Thinking...
"We
are so wrong for this fling.."
As I'm leaving his shit and my past behind
me
Thinking..
"They
don't suspect a thing!!!"
Attention People of
TRD:
*Breaking
News*
I have just
been informed that there is a new strain of the flu going
around..
H1-H0: The Chicken Head
Flu
Symptoms of this deadly
outbreak are:
-Uncontrollable neck
rolling
-Moderate to
severe hating
-Verbal
diarrhea
-Loss of mental
clarity
Etc....
If you know someone that suffers
from this dreaded illness
Please feel free to list them underneath so they
can...
Get Well
Soon!!!
:)
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